Ho boy it just hit me how difficult it would be to learn how to drive in the UK after moving from the USA.

Not the driving-on-the-opposite-side-of-the-road thing, or even the driving-through-a-roundabout thing.

It’s the stick shift.

Think of it… you’re used to smoothly shifting up and down the gears, around turns, from stoplights, up and down hills, etc.

Using what? Your RIGHT arm. Now, you’d need to relearn the process using your LEFT arm.

For people slow in the head like me this could take some time…. and would be quite the exciting challenge.

Hi all,

Normally I don’t send long emails. But today’s sequence of news blips I monitor came up with an interesting collection of items.

I’ve attached three after my signature, in the order in which they came in my inbox.

My reactions were firstly, measured happiness with the first story, disturbed shock and anger with the second, then sadness and resolve in the third.

To me this is a reminder that we must be always aware of how God lives in our lives on a daily basis, and how the devil wants to interrupt that relationship.

[Soapbox speech starts]

Our kids must also be reminded of this message since their personal history is much newer than our own. For instance, it may not be a big deal to our kids to use pop stars in a Nativity scene. Certainly the power of God does not live in the mannequins or the arrangement of the scene. But bringing popular celebrities into the story of Jesus’ birth does trivialize the Christmas story and the kids aren’t aware of that.

Brings to mind a Christmas special we watched on TV for a popular cartoon called ‘Recess’ (“Recess Christmas: Miracle on Third Street”). Since it is a Disney product I expected that it would not bring much in the way of evangelical Christian messages but I was really upset when the finale of the cartoon kids’ Christmas play (which told us how much Christmas means to all of our hearts) began with Druids, proceeded with Kwanzaa, had a kid dressed as a Jewish menorah, and ended up with Santa Claus and other religious symbols all dancing on stage and singing. Hmmm seems the only major religion not represented was, uh, Jesus Himself, the reason for the CHRISTmas season in the first place. It didn’t help that the ending shot was of five of the kids laying on the ground making snow angels, forming the shape of an upside-down pentagram. I am NOT joking or paranoid, watch it for yourself when it comes on TV.

[Soapbox speech ends]

Whew had to get that out of my system, thanks for listening (reading?).

Love,
John

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Famous Atheist Now Believes in God

Thu Dec 9, 4:57 PM ET
U.S. National – AP

By RICHARD N. OSTLING, AP Religion Writer

NEW YORK – A British philosophy professor who has been a leading champion of atheism for more than a half-century has changed his mind. He now believes in God — more or less — based on scientific evidence, and says so on a video released Thursday.

At age 81, after decades of insisting belief is a mistake, Antony Flew has concluded that some sort of intelligence or first cause must have created the universe. A super-intelligence is the only good explanation for the origin of life and the complexity of nature, Flew said in a telephone interview from England.

Flew said he’s best labeled a deist like Thomas Jefferson, whose God was not actively involved in people’s lives.

“I’m thinking of a God very different from the God of the Christian and far and away from the God of Islam, because both are depicted as omnipotent Oriental despots, cosmic Saddam Husseins,” he said. “It could be a person in the sense of a being that has intelligence and a purpose, I suppose.”

Flew first made his mark with the 1950 article “Theology and Falsification,” based on a paper for the Socratic Club, a weekly Oxford religious forum led by writer and Christian thinker C.S. Lewis.

Over the years, Flew proclaimed the lack of evidence for God while teaching at Oxford, Aberdeen, Keele, and Reading universities in Britain, in visits to numerous U.S. and Canadian campuses and in books, articles, lectures and debates.

There was no one moment of change but a gradual conclusion over recent months for Flew, a spry man who still does not believe in an afterlife.

Yet biologists’ investigation of DNA “has shown, by the almost unbelievable complexity of the arrangements which are needed to produce (life), that intelligence must have been involved,” Flew says in the new video, “Has Science Discovered God?”

The video draws from a New York discussion last May organized by author Roy Abraham Varghese’s Institute for Metascientific Research in Garland, Texas. Participants were Flew; Varghese; Israeli physicist Gerald Schroeder, an Orthodox Jew; and Roman Catholic philosopher John Haldane of Scotland’s University of St. Andrews.

The first hint of Flew’s turn was a letter to the August-September issue of Britain’s Philosophy Now magazine. “It has become inordinately difficult even to begin to think about constructing a naturalistic theory of the evolution of that first reproducing organism,” he wrote.

The letter commended arguments in Schroeder’s “The Hidden Face of God” and “The Wonder of the World” by Varghese, an Eastern Rite Catholic layman.

This week, Flew finished writing the first formal account of his new outlook for the introduction to a new edition of his “God and Philosophy,” scheduled for release next year by Prometheus Books.

Prometheus specializes in skeptical thought, but if his belief upsets people, well “that’s too bad,” Flew said. “My whole life has been guided by the principle of Plato’s Socrates: Follow the evidence, wherever it leads.”

Last week, Richard Carrier, a writer and Columbia University graduate student, posted new material based on correspondence with Flew on the atheistic www.infidels.org Web page. Carrier assured atheists that Flew accepts only a “minimal God” and believes in no afterlife.

Flew’s “name and stature are big. Whenever you hear people talk about atheists, Flew always comes up,” Carrier said. Still, when it comes to Flew’s reversal, “apart from curiosity, I don’t think it’s like a big deal.”

Flew told The Associated Press his current ideas have some similarity with American “intelligent design” theorists, who see evidence for a guiding force in the construction of the universe. He accepts Darwinian evolution but doubts it can explain the ultimate origins of life.

A Methodist minister’s son, Flew became an atheist at 15.

Early in his career, he argued that no conceivable events could constitute proof against God for believers, so skeptics were right to wonder whether the concept of God meant anything at all.

Another landmark was his 1984 “The Presumption of Atheism,” playing off the presumption of innocence in criminal law. Flew said the debate over God must begin by presuming atheism, putting the burden of proof on those arguing that God exists.

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Furor Over Scrapping of Christmas Play

Thu Dec 9,11:44 AM ET
By Philip Pullella

ROME (Reuters) – An Italian school’s substitution of a Nativity play with Little Red Riding Hood so as not to offend Muslim children has raised the Vatican (news – web sites)’s ire and sparked debate on how much traditions should change to accommodate immigrants.

The episode was the latest in a series in recent weeks which made headlines as overwhelmingly Catholic Italy comes to grips with an ever-growing Muslim population which some see as a blessing for the economy and others as a threat.

Pope John Paul (news – web sites), in a message for the Catholic Church’s World Day of Migrants, weighed in indirectly, saying Christians had to respect cultural differences but had to proclaim the gospel and defend traditions.

Last week, a public elementary school in the northern city of Treviso decided that Little Red Riding Hood would be this year’s Christmas play instead of the Christmas story.

The teachers said the famous tale was a fitting representation of the struggle between good and evil and would not offend Muslim children. The school’s traditional nativity scene was scrapped for the same reason.

In another school near Milan, the word “Jesus” was removed from a Christmas hymn and substituted with the word “virtue.” In Vicenza province an annual contest for the best Nativity scene in schools was canceled.

Conservative politicians and Churchmen blasted the moves.

“Are we losing our minds?,” said Reforms Minister Roberto Calderoli, an outspoken member of the populist Northern League. “Do we want to erase our identity for the love of Allah?”

The Vatican, still smarting from its failure to win a reference to Europe’s Christian roots in the continent’s new constitution, said Christians should hold their ground.

“It is a perfect example of how not to respect the presence of different people, in this case our Muslim brothers, by annihilating our own identity,” said Bishop Agostino Marchetto, head of the Vatican’s department for migrants.

“We have to accept others but others have to accept our identity,” he told reporters.

The Vatican has been waging a battle to keep Christ in Christmas. Wednesday it harshly criticized a Nativity scene in London which portrayed soccer star David Beckham and his wife Victoria as Joseph and Mary.

Cardinal Camillo Ruini of Rome went on national television event Wednesday to issued a battle cry over respect for traditional Nativity creches.

“These things can seem small but the spirit behind them is radically wrong and can have very heavy consequences on our young people,” he said.

Italy, with a population of 57 million, is home to an estimated one million officially registered Muslims, making Islam the country’s second largest religion. But social services groups say the number is much higher and growing.

The controversies have divided Italian Muslims, who are trying to integrate themselves in a Catholic country where they have found jobs.

“Those Christmas plays are like forced indoctrination,” said Abdel Smith, one of Italy’s most outspoken Muslim leaders, who has launched legal battles to take crucifixes from school walls.

But Hamed Shaari, head of a major Islamic cultural institute in Milan, said it was “senseless” to change the words of a Christmas song that has 2,000 years of tradition behind it.

“It’s great that people are aware of our feelings but traditions should be respected. This way, we can respect ours as well,” he said.

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Vatican university takes on the devil

Thu Dec 9, 1:48 PM ET

By Philip Pullella

ROME (Reuters) – Forget the new “Exorcist” film, the Vatican (news – web sites) is offering the real thing.

A Vatican university says it will hold a special “theoretical and practical” course for Roman Catholic priests on Satanism and exorcism in response to what the Church says is a worrying interest in the occult, particularly among the young.

This year, Italy was gripped by the story of two teenage members of a heavy metal rock band called the “Beasts of Satan” who were killed by other band members in a human sacrifice.

The deaths horrified Catholic Italy, with pages of newspapers given over to descriptions of the black candles and goats’ skulls decorating one victim’s bedroom and witness statements of sexual violence.

The Regina Apostolorum, one of Rome’s most prestigious pontifical universities, said in a statement on Thursday that such episodes should be seen as an “alarm bell to take seriously a problem which is still far too underestimated”.

“In the last few years there has been a lot of interest in Satanism and it develops because of the media. It’s not that the devil is in the media, rock and roll or the Internet but the media can be damaging when it is used the wrong way,” Carlo Climati, one of the professors of the course, told Reuters.

“For young people, interest in Satanism can start with a CD, move onto the Internet. From there, it sometimes develops into home-grown, seemingly harmless things like going to cemeteries but sometimes can lead to murders, as we have seen.”

The two-month course, which begins in February and will be limited to priests and advanced students of theology, will include themes such as Satanism, diabolic possession and “prayers of liberation”.

Satanism, the statement said, aimed to sow confusion among the young and promote a world without moral rules.

According to some estimates, as many as 5,000 people are thought to be members of Satanic cults in Italy with 17- to 25-year-olds making up three quarters of them.

Interest in the devil and the occult has been boosted by films such as “The Exorcist” in 1973 and this year’s “Exorcist: The Beginning”.

In 1999, the Vatican issued its first updated ritual for exorcism since 1614 and warned that the devil is still at work.

The official Roman Catholic exorcism starts with prayers, a blessing and sprinkling of holy water, the laying on of hands on the possessed, and the making of the sign of the cross.

It ends with an “imperative formula” in which the devil is ordered to leave the possessed.

The formula begins: “I order you, Satan…” It goes on to denounce Satan as “prince of the world” and “enemy of human salvation”. It ends: “Go back, Satan.”

Oh man that was something. The sky was overcast and foggy but we could still see the massive fireworks display over the area.

The air was chilly but not overly so, and we could see the thin green laser line of light coming from 0 degree meridian at Greenwich to shoot off and fade away in the distance overhead.

The best part was after the show. We turned around and went straight into the bedroom and tucked the kids in. Whew you couldn’t ask for a better view.

We can still hear bangs from the neighbors’ fireworks going off and it’s going to be a noisy night. But a lovely one.

Hi kids, we are not alone. Other people in this world don’t like having the devil try to influence our friends either.

This time a kid did what was right and didn’t answer a question on a test because he knew it was wrong to support something that went against the Bible.

Love,
Dad

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Pupil Appeals Harry Potter ‘Witchcraft’

Mon Nov 1, 9:12 AM ET

JOHANNESBURG (Reuters) – A South African schoolboy appealed to education authorities after refusing to answer an exam question on Harry Potter (news – web sites) because he believes the best-selling children’s books promote witchcraft.

Eighteen-year-old John Smit did not answer a comprehension question on a review of one of J.K. Rowling (news – web sites)’s books on the boy wizard, worth 30 percent of his English exam.

“He wouldn’t answer it because it supports witchcraft, and we’re against witchcraft … the Bible is against witchcraft,” Smit’s mother, who did not wish to give her first name, told Reuters.

The family has written to provincial director of examinations to complain. Authorities have yet to respond.

“I hope they will give him his average mark. This shouldn’t happen again,” she said.

African Christian Democratic Party MP Cheryllyn Dudley said South Africa needed a clear policy to avoid other pupils facing moral dilemmas during exams.

“I have read (Harry Potter books), I have researched them thoroughly, and my personal opinion is that they are witchcraft manuals,” Dudley told Reuters.

Good news, honey

[–] stopped by to talk just a few minutes ago. He understands my concerns and said we’ll work on ways to offload some of the stuff I’m working on so I can take a half-day off now and again to balance my hours.

Also he said that when this is sucessfully implemented in November this will be a huge celebration for the bank and that he will have no problems telling some of us to take a day off with pay.

He did appreciate me speaking up before I got upset by the workload. I am not but he’s not used to someone working like I’ve been and not getting personally upset. I told him it’s because my wife and kids are such good support and you all keep me out of
trouble.

He’s happy you are here, but not as much as I am!

Love, your heart

Hello Chillins!
Tuesday, October 19, 2004

A BIG Hello from London!

Hey there, How you doing?

I thought I would take a minute and ask the world to stop moving long enough for me to send out a quick letter. I thought life would slow down a little bit having moved away from the hustle and bustle of our hectic lives in [Hometown]. That did no happen! Now I have to follow up on work permits, visitor visas, health records, etc.etc.etc.

I find that having family and friends all over the world is a wonderful blessing hat is keeping me very busy on the email front. I am emailing out to both sides of the planet and everyone wants to hear more and more. [Child 3] and I just celebrated birthdays at the beginning of the month and now we are preparing for Thanksgiving. We have invited over some new friends, young and old, to celebrate the many blessings in all our lives. I expect it to be very nice, although we will be celebrating on the Friday instead of Thursday, as it is not a national holiday here. Can’t really think why it is not?!?!?

We were off the Bricklane Market this last weekend in search of low priced winter coats and cheap fruit. The boys were blown away by the idea that the prices asked were not always the prices paid. They had never really experienced haggling first hand and were attempting to pay too much. I helped [Child 3] secure a new toy for 6.00 pounds down from the original asking price of 16.00. [Child 1] was beside himself. He had not heard me haggle and didn’t understand why the price was dropping as he was only listening to the man, not me. Silly boy, Mom’s have talent!!! Many goodies
were carried home.

[Husband] acquired two new undershirts and a pair of thermal underwear. He loves to stay warm and here that is not so easy to do. Although I must say, they sure have the heaters on in the stores and subways! You wear lots of clothes to stay warm outside then you have to sweat to death while inside. These coats are big and bulky. No sweaters around here. I may be missing good old [Hometown] about now, what do you think? Driving around in your nice big heated car wearing whatever you choose because you know you are going to park as close to the door as possible and you won’t even have a chance to get cold running between the two. Pleasant memories!

We haven’t gone out much at all in the last month or so as [Husband]s work has been picking up pace, as the end of year rolls round. He emailed me this morning that they are going to begin working on New York time real soon. That is where the majority of trading occurs, between London and New York. He has his finger on the pulse of the financial world! While being paid from a slow IV drip! The opportunity to stay here long term is available, even so far as having discussed permanent hire with me and with his superiors. Everyone adores him! I should start a fan club. Yes, and I could be the President of the club. I like this idea. It makes me feel important!

We will have to study and pray over this really hard. We are not familiar with all the International tax laws and we hope we are not shooting ourselves in the foot. The chance to show our children the world was too great to pass up, we had to take it. But financially it is the same hardship we had before in [Hometown]. The pay here seems higher but with the higher cost of living and the tax rate and fees over 50% of his salary, we still struggle but we are together and happy! Being here also lets us at least think about being able to visit my extended family. It is a lot closer from here than it is from [Hometown].

The kids are very happy.

[Child 2] attended her first sleepover in London. She has a couple of close girl friends that she attends school with and also gymnastics once a week. Shantalle, Corrina, and Xan had a super time playing games and dancing until 1:30. The class studies seem to move slower here so she is having a chance to really understand her math. She has never been confident with math but she is really learning now! Wonderful for her!!!

[Child 1] is playing on the George Greene basketball team. He found that most boys here a pretty much professional football (soccer) players by the time they are 10. He didn’t make the team but was pleased that his friends did and he is practicing with them everyday before school. Getting ready for next year. He also is waiting to hear if he has a spot in the Christmas Show. He auditioned last week. Pray for that please!

[Child 3] has been the big adventure boy! On the 9th of October [Husband] took the kids to the store to purchase a new set of clippers so I might trim their hair. They were looking like a bunch of Beatle’s wanna be’s. On the way home with clippers and a large box of Crispy Crème Donuts everyone vied for their spot in the revolving door. First Xan, then [Husband], and lined up next [Child 1] and [Child 3]. All went smoothly till [Child 1] got excited and jumped in the same space as Daddy, well not to be left behind, [Child 3] jumped in too.

EEEEEEEEEEEEKKKKKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!

Everything came to a screeching halt. [Child 3] had gotten his arm stuck in the door, in a space about 2 1/2 inch wide. So there they are, the boys stuck in a space meant for one person and [Child 3]’s arm is turning many different colors because the blood supply is being cut off. [Husband] called me on the mobile and said they would be running a little late. At the same time the building security was calling in the emergency squad.

Sometime later:

[Child 3] was administered oxygen to lift his levels and the color had come back in his arm. Minus the arm of his coat and brand new birthday shirt (they had to cut it off him) they found their way home to tell me the whole story.

Is it any wonder I have all these gray hairs? Only my stylist knows for sure!

I am being held hostage by this computer. Every day I check the accounts, answer the emails, and ship and receive packages Hey, this is just like a “Real” job! I did work for the last year and a half as a Chief Administrative and Marketing Assistant. I started working when [Husband] became unemployed and also to help out my girlfriend. She is now moving herself, as her husband has taken a new job, they are looking forward to their own Great Adventure!

I also look for employment opportunities in the U.S. for [Husband] but with no luck. I guess we will be here for a while. Cool with me! I spend many, many hours a week trying to keep up with the emails to everyone.

If you are interested, we use an internet program called Skype. It is free and safe. We, have in the family used it for a long time with no problems. The program allows you to use a headset as a phone, but with no charge. Free calls to anyone with a Skype accounts.

You would go to www.skype.com and download the program. (We have found it to be very safe, no problems) Create your free account, they ask for no personal information.  Our account is [—]; if you type that in search for other Skype members you will find us. I try to leave us logged in all the time, so it is like a phone. So, it rings and everything.

I better wind this up for today – during this letter I have received a long distance call from [Hometown], a MSN chat from [—], and my laundry have finished. Oh my goodness I almost forgot I have to go pick up the kids. Off I go!

In the true form of my Mom, [—], this is a classic Xerox letter. Mom was known for her love of writing letters and keeping I touch with her family and friends, but with all the people she wrote to, sometimes she was forced to do a Mass-Mailing. This is my way of carrying on the tradition and getting everyone caught up. I would love to hear from you and hear how your little world is doing.

Do not fear, this will not replace the individual and personal emails; this is something I will probably do once a month. OK?

Love in Christ, from all of us, here in London!
Keep in touch,
[Husband]
and Family

Birthday weekend for the missus… gifts and kisses and everything nice.

Except for the visit from the Fire Brigade.

It seems that automatic revolving doors enjoy a nice snack of child now and again. Our poor youngest one tried jumping into the door immediately after I entered the door and was quite surprised when he found his upper arm and shoulder wedged between the door and the enclosure.

The fire brigade was not so surprised. This was the second revolving door call this week — the other one grabbed a young child’s foot.

Everyone was fine in the end. I called the missus during the ordeal to tell her we were stuck and that help was on its way. I wisely omitted the bit about her youngest’s body parts being the cause of our stuckness and that the ‘help on the way’ being the Fire Brigade and ambulance.

Well it made for a nice excuse to enjoy a couple of birthday martinis at the end of the day.

Apparently my anthropophobia flares up now and again sometimes more severely than others…. London has over 7 million people, according to the last census count.

Apparently 94% of them were in packed into Jubilee Park today when I ventured out to get some stuff at the mall. Man I was glad to get back to the relative safety of my desk!

I think we are settling in finally. Kids are in school (the timing for homeschooling didn’t work out) and we’re making friends.

Work is increasingly challenging. Good opportunities for future work but I really need to manage the client expectations. I keep raising the bar on my deliveries and should back off a little so they won’t expect 150% all the time. That gets tiring and eats into home life.

The family has been wonderfully supportive. This weekend is going to be fun. A day playing Playstation and perhaps watching a movie with the boys while Mom and the girl go look at the dog show and castles and play dress-up.

Just settling in for bedtime and saw the neatest thing. We’re near the airport on the East end of town. The night’s kind of cloudy and I can see the reflections of the buildings’ light rippling off the water from our back patio windows.

Then the neatest sight — the blue & red & white flashing lights of a plane as it comes in for a landing… then another nearby. Soon I see in the sky no less than 5 blinking little sets of airplane lights scooting across the sky like some noisy fireflies overhead.

It’s a nice way to end the day.

My brain is fried from working so my discourse on life in London will be rather terse until my creative juices ripen again…

Work project went live last weekend; celebration at the pub this Tuesday. I’ll pop in to visit but won’t stay long.

Kids are in school; can’t afford homeschool material yet so we’re glad local state school has room for the kids.

Friends are coming in from Germany tomorrow (Sunday) to visit; our kids are going to visit nearby friends today.